sexual abuse
ANY WOMAN WHO HAS ENDURED OR SUFFERED ANY KIND OF ABUSE. MAY NOT KNOW ANY SAFETY TO BE IN BODY.
THEREFORE MUST BE GENTLEY GUIDED WITH LOVE AND REASSURANCE OF THE PROCESS BEFORE AND IN SESSION
We are primarily created from the most potent source of creativity . Sexual energy Life force.
When sexual abuse happens especially at at young age this cuts off the pleasure response from an age where brain development is also not fully formed therefore neuro transmitters are disturbed. Only nervous system responses will be available subconsciously as a learned behaviour for safety.
Never ask a client if they have been abused it will unfold naturally when they come to you. I have never officially declared my work with abuse . Most of my clients had been and told me when they were ready because they trusted me.
Carmen a Soulful Doula and a midwife has worked within the system and is experienced working with abuse and has shared professional references of which have been shared below
how to identify and allow space for healing
You don’t have to make them repeat a story. Just an understanding of when as acknowledgment. You will recognise patterns in others stages of life .
Menstrual issues, fertility, relationships, pregnancy, birth trauma.
You only need to explain that you are guiding them to neutralise story by acknowledgement and then leading them into safety and what is now desired.
Early childhood abuse
Identification:
To understand the story of when abuse took place.
Inner child before puberty. Points to consider:
Children’s anatomy . No lubrication. No sex hormones before puberty.
Will have been extreme pain, overstretching parts of the body not ready and matured enough to be experiencing that level of physical force.
A questioning of the inner mind ‘Why is this happening to me ’ ‘There must be something wrong with me ?’ Feeling of fear from the care takers that should have protected them.
Kids feeling guilty. ‘This body is not mine’ again not feeling safe.
Losing vulnerability. Innocence stolen from them. Soul and body connection.
The response of abuse will be
Brain freeze, blurry vision. Safety taken away
In later life stages a dissociation coping strategy forms. Going into flight as a natural response using it as a resource
Adult primal urges to release through purging, feeling of disgust.
Could lead to mental disorders like Bi polar. To separate body and mind the density and darkness rises.
how the early abuse can effect pregnancy and birth
Not being fully present in the body to connect with baby. As a safety strategy.
Birth not seen as a resource for connection to birth.
Birth is primal sexual energy and potent in its movement therefore it could trigger early experiences. Children are always are a part of the parents inner child.
The mother will still birth but through the trauma imprints or may open her up into a healing experience. As her maidenhood is peeled off through the birth portal. Connection with the baby will offer a new love for herself.
what can play out physically as emotions and actions
There can little resistance. A questioning of whether you should fight or not. Stand up or scream before you go into freeze.
This could be the medical system overpowering .
A pattern that can occur in later life as programming is indecisiveness. Symptoms of repercussion feeling tin the body
Returns to inner child freeze. feeling of strong or not strong against the perpetrator ( this could take form in relationship, the masculine energy, medics or the system. anything that represents the lack of freedom taken away from them as a recurring theme.
Power over themselves. They can become the abuser as a protection mechanism
In these scenario’s always talk about a solution first. It provides trust, safety and healing.
The abuse story octaves is to identify and know and acknowledge to neutralise which means for your client to feel that she’s not in denial. But ready to move into healing union.
Person
Identify trauma
Story
Family Herstory
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2. Level of influence
Body
Mind
Soul
3. Movement within the mind and body
Breath
Nervous system
Any subconscious patterning
4. Menstrual cycle influence
General health
Mental and emotional state
5. Acknowledgement.
Are they ready to neutralise story
6. Reception of healing
Are they ready to heal.
RE WOMBING
YOUR SESSION DESIGN EXAMPLE ( REFER TO SANPRITI CASE STUDY SECTION)
USE THE TRINES TO ANCHOR IN NODAL POINTS WHICH ALLOWS ACCESS TO NEW CYCLES OF UNION CHANGING SOMATIC RESPONSE TO PARASYMPATHETIC WHICH IS THE FEMININE ALLOWANCE STAGE.
IN YOUR PRESENCE THEY WILL FEEL SAFE BECUASE OF YOUR FIELD
IDENTIFY WHAT COMES FIRST
RELEASE
ANCHOR 1ST TRINE
THEN BEGIN TO ADD 2ND TRINE HEART FOR THEMSELVES
PRIMAL MOVEMENT FOR ANY RELEASE NEEDED ESPECIALLY OPENING OF THE THROAT , MOVEMENT OF THE HIPS
1ST AND 2ND TRINE IF THEY FEEL CONFIDENT. WHICH IS FOR YOU TO EXPLAIN WHAT A NEGATIVE MEMORY IS AND ACCEPTING IT AS THAT WILL NEUTRALISE THE BODY RESONACE AND MIND
AND THEN MOVING THE MIND AND BODY INTO PRESENCE OF NEW DESIRE.
RE WOMBING THROUGH RELAXATION ESPECIALLY IF DEEP TRAUMA IS RELEASED.
HOME PRACTICE FOR THEM:
11 KRIYAS
CIRCUIT BREATH
PRIMAL MOVEMENT FOR ANY RELEASE NEEDED ESPECIALLY OPENING OF THE THROAT , MOVEMENT OF THE HIPS IF THEY FEEL COMFORTABLE
1ST AND 2ND TRINE IF THEY FEEL CONFIDENT. WHICH IS FOR YOU TO EXPLAIN WHAT A NEGATIVE MEMORY IS AND ACCEPTING AS JUST THAT AND THEN MOVING THE MIND AND BODY INTO PRESENCE OF NEW DESIRE.
YOU ARE GUIDNG HER BACK TO HER ORIGIN WHICH WAS A PURE CONNECTION TO GOD/DESS. THE EARTH.
SO HER SOMATIC RESPONSE CHANGES FROM NEGATIVE EGO TO HEALING EMPOWERMENT. WHICH MAY BE NEW TO HER .
NEUTRALISATION IS FIRST TO
FREEDOM